tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6260263928440442563.post3406098927357043430..comments2023-11-03T05:09:45.538-07:00Comments on horspoor: Peppermints Could Be Horsey Valiumhorspoorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12838010404746375255noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6260263928440442563.post-85466304611757624702013-01-24T21:28:40.882-08:002013-01-24T21:28:40.882-08:00Children are completely fearless! I have taught Hu...Children are completely fearless! I have taught Hunter/Jumpers for a little while now (recently took a break for school) and i had a whole mix from beginner walk trotters to advanced jumpers and the adults always gave me the most challenge. My best way to teach them was always to show them, whether that meant hopping up onto there horse and showing them that yes it can be done or this is how you can get him to do it, to pulling out one of the old faithful horses who would teach them how to do it or that it really wasn't all that scary.Jen Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08953835614078857723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6260263928440442563.post-3439209098417503722009-10-02T18:37:11.151-07:002009-10-02T18:37:11.151-07:00Yeah, not a diet I would recommend to anyone. My ...Yeah, not a diet I would recommend to anyone. My abs, and lower back are sore. UGH, I was sick.horspoorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12838010404746375255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6260263928440442563.post-72720623223143840662009-10-02T16:06:37.207-07:002009-10-02T16:06:37.207-07:00Oh, that was so funny. Not quite sure why I had to...Oh, that was so funny. Not quite sure why I had to push out my chin, too. Just seemed like a good idea. lol. I wish I had a picture, because I couldn't see it. But it sure felt funny. <br /><br />Glad you're on the mend! Flu is not fun. Hmm, I can see someone marketing this new weight-loss solution. "Lose 10 pounds this weekend!" ugh, I'd rather start walking regularly. lol.blueheronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12073089864842635639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6260263928440442563.post-64723367630909863972009-10-02T11:34:17.597-07:002009-10-02T11:34:17.597-07:00Sorry I was missing in action yesterday. Had the ...Sorry I was missing in action yesterday. Had the flu. On a positive note, I think I'm thinner.<br /><br />VM I agree with you. I try to make it fun, and not so focused on what you're doing incorrectly, but the positive points. There are times I watch these women (90% women, have had a few men) struggle, and can feel their fear and anxiety it just makes me feel so bad for them. <br /><br />Often other students will be riding when I'm giving a lesson. I'll use them to demonstrate the good and the bad. The bad is always good to get people to lighten up and laugh. <br /><br />One of the funniest was discussing different body types, and how they relate to riding. There were four of us there. One student and I are built with longer thigh, shorter calf, and longer upper arm bones, and shorter forearms. The other two...shorter thigh, longer calf, and shorter upper arm, longer forearm. <br /><br />The one student and I can ride with our hands really low, and still keep a nice bend to the elbow and a supple connection. Those with the shorter upper arm bone will need to ride with their hands a tad higher. If they stuff their hands down, it locks the elbow, and creates an unforgiving connection. <br /><br />So, the other adult (she shall remain nameless unless she chooses to speak up) collapses her torso, shoves her chin out and says, "See, I can ride with my elbows at my hips too...no problem." Cracked me up, cracked the girls up...it was hilarious. But it truly showed the difference body types make, and how you have to adjust to make things work right.horspoorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12838010404746375255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6260263928440442563.post-40545507158059239632009-10-01T12:30:54.601-07:002009-10-01T12:30:54.601-07:00It's going to be so interesting to find out wh...It's going to be so interesting to find out who Top REALLY is, now that you've shoveled away the layer of human induced trauma and fear. What an exciting stage of retraining! He is a glorious brave boy to finally let you into his heart.kestrelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03253025366100154732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6260263928440442563.post-52254404695679118152009-10-01T09:23:40.154-07:002009-10-01T09:23:40.154-07:00I agree with VM's - I think it's fear of f...I agree with VM's - I think it's fear of failure and especially of getting laughed at. <br /><br />Learning as an adult I can be so self concience though once I'm comfortable I'm still young enough that if the right descriptors are used I get it pretty fast. I think adults spend their life building up a wall and it's hard to let it down but you HAVE to. <br /><br />Also, I think adults are more worried about hurting/screwing up the horse than any kid would be. A kid wouldn't even think like that - just DO it. An adult is going to worry about how hard or how soft the movement should be etc. etc. I like VM's idea of getting people to laugh at themselves. :)<br /><br />Pssssttt... hey, Top, I've got the good stuff, yeah, REAL pepperminty! You got the money? I got the goods buddy... ;) <br /><br />Glad to hear you're getting through to him!!!autumnblazehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14261052609848445921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6260263928440442563.post-1161494616284072142009-10-01T06:28:30.371-07:002009-10-01T06:28:30.371-07:00One way to get beginner adults to relax is every s...One way to get beginner adults to relax is every so often put them all in a big group lesson even if you only have one lesson horse. Plan to take a couple hours (more like a clinic) if have limited mounts. They ride together or take turns, doesn't matter but after the initial shock of possibly embarassing themselves, they get it. They get that it's okay to laugh at each other's mistakes and start to relax and even help one another. They get that they aren't the only newbie making the same mistakes over and over. When they relax, their ears open wider. Just a suggestion. I've done this a few times with beginner adults. Not all the time but every couple of weeks maybe. You could also bring in an apprentice instructor for the group lesson. Someone young who is just starting out with teaching. They wouldn't charge much, they'd get invaluable experience and could have a fresh way of approaching certain topics to benefit your students and you! Great post! It is much more complicated to teach beginner adults than beginner children! <br /><br />tailwindssouth.blogspot.comVectormomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04877291527910704957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6260263928440442563.post-44606588860715555172009-10-01T05:26:10.577-07:002009-10-01T05:26:10.577-07:00Great Post, HP!!
I got more to say, no time to say...Great Post, HP!!<br />I got more to say, no time to say it.<br /><br />Keep 'em laughing, is how I did it. No relax, no ride.<br /><br />(roflmao)<br />Wonder what inspired this?<br />or who?<br />What brand of peppermints?<br />Maybe you should give some to your mature students;)GoLightlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18283690734019490983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6260263928440442563.post-89173736974822277502009-10-01T03:40:49.684-07:002009-10-01T03:40:49.684-07:00I must be a kid, then. And I truly hope I can find...I must be a kid, then. And I truly hope I can find an instructor that can and will talk to me as such. In anything I learn, I break it down and ask why, why, why. Release my inner child, so to speak. Don't care if they talk down to me, just let me learn from the ground up. Intimidating to most.<br />Are those peppermints manufactored in your county? Could that explain the groove on Top has?nccatniphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15493239156885255783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6260263928440442563.post-89881835202119785872009-10-01T00:02:26.950-07:002009-10-01T00:02:26.950-07:00I think kids have lessfear, they don't over th...I think kids have lessfear, they don't over think things .whereas adults tend to tear it apart it thier head ( and put it together wrong) <br />Pepermints a powerful drug huh?Sherry Sikstromhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15739108723318002627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6260263928440442563.post-22092105154008375352009-09-30T23:03:40.613-07:002009-09-30T23:03:40.613-07:00In response to one of your questions, I think you ...In response to one of your questions, I think you answered it--it's the fear of failure and not wanting to do it wrong that interferes with many adults. In learning any task. Youngsters, and the young at heart, are able to just leap in and try things. The ones you have to say, "Wait, hang on, don't do that!" are probably also the ones who can do the multi-step movement in one fluid act. lol.<br /><br />Computer technology is much the same way. Put a new gadget in front of most kids, and they'll start messing with it to figure it out. Put the same new gadget in front of most adults, and they'll wait for the workshop, look for the manual, or find an expert. Rarely will they mess with it.<br /><br />Where does that freedom to just mess around go? Why do some adults retain it? Why do some kids lose it by the age of 5? Hmmm. I leave with more questions than I came with...blueheronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12073089864842635639noreply@blogger.com